Tuesday, April 2, 2013

Quotes to Inspire

I like quotes.

"Don't aim at success--the more you aim at it and make it (your final) target, the more you are going to miss it. For true success, like happiness, cannot be pursued; it must ensue, and it only does so as the unintended side effect of one's personal dedication to a cause greater than oneself. Listen to what your conscience commands you to do and carry it out to the best of your knowledge." -- Viktor Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning.

Four Years Later...!

It's been four years since my last post and I wanted to write something deep and meaningful to reintroduce myself to the online community... But I know myself better than that. It would take me a week to create that post to the standards I would like, so let's just pretend that I did and jump right in. Otherwise, there will never be another post in Super Seoulful... Blerg.

Let me catch you up on my life:
- lived in Seoul until August 2010
- got my CELTA in Vietnam in September 2010
- traveled SE Asia until February 2011
- went home and saw friends and family for a bit
- hiked 500 miles across Spain, via El Camino de Santiago, and then backpacked around Spain and Portugal from April to June 2011
- moved to the UAE in September 2011
- and that is where I am now (April 2013)

Things that are the same:
- confused about life! (Right now, it's "should I be fiscally responsible and stay in the UAE"? Or "should I forget about my savings and move to Africa for a few years"?)
- confused about my career (I am trying to find a job where I can teach and be involved in education, AND be expected to travel, until I don't want to anymore AND make a good salary. At the moment, I haven't worked anywhere for more than a year or two. Now that I am closer to 30-years-old than 20, I'm beginning to think about how that looks on my resume.)
- missing home (I think people back home forget how much I love and miss them, since I am the one choosing to stay away. I just hope that I can see as much of the world as I need to before everyone starts having babies, since they're all pretty much married by now!)

Things that are different:
- I'm getting to know myself and how I operate (took me 27 years)
- I'm getting more focused on the future and my goals than I've ever been (although this has partly contributed to the aforementioned crises)
- I'm going back to school to get my Master in Education degree (more to come on this)
- I'm trying to become more internet saavy and use the internet - something that I previously felt created a huge distance between people and how they interact - to actually create connections with people so that we can help each other figure out life, reach our goals, and all that stuff that everyone wants to do.

I hope this works.

Tuesday, March 3, 2009

More things that are different in Korea!

Before I start the list, I must preface my blog by saying that I lost my camera! No more new pictures for a while, but I will try to use very descriptive language so you can create mental images when necessary. ;)

1. EVERYWHERE delivers! For FREE!
Most restaurants will deliver food at no extra cost. Even McDonald's delivers here in Korea. You can see scooters on their way to a delivery with food attached to the back of them all the time. It's funny because most of the restaurants are very close (even across the street sometime) but they will still deliver to your door. And just about every restaurant will give you real dishes - not disposable ones - for you to eat on. The restaurant gives you a plastic bag to put the used dishes in, so when you are finished you put the food/dishes into the restaurant's bag and leave the bag by the elevator or in the stairwell so that they can pick it up later in the day. It's so cool!

2. 회식!
A 회식 (pronounced kind of like "hwee-sheik") is when co-workers go out on the town together. I love that Koreans have a word for partying with the people you work with. I am not sure if the boss always pays for his employees to go out, but my boss always foots the bill when we have a 회식. Since it includes dinner, drinks and then some sort of post-dinner activity, it can get very expensive. They are always really fun. My boss, Mr. Lee, loves to try and get all of the teachers really drunk and he has devised a game that we just call "Attack" because if he hands you a drink (and he will hand everyone a drink), you HAVE to drink it and then "attack" someone else with a drink.
*Here is more about the game of "Attack" if you are interested. If not, then skip ahead. You dont care about me anyway.*
The drink is a glass of beer with a shot of soju dropped inside of it (JagerBomb style). Once you are "attacked", you have to cover the drink with a napkin and then twirl the glass around until a mini-tornado is sloshing around inside the glass. By then the napkin should be pretty wet. You then take the napkin off the glass and shape it into a large "spit ball", if you will. Next you throw the spit ball at the wall, a window or anything hanging from the ceiling and you chug your drink. If you finish your drink before the "spit ball" falls off the surface it was stuck to, you are free to attack the next person. However, if you do not finish your drink before the "spit ball" slips off the wall/window/whatever, then you have to do it all over again until you can. Mr. Lee is baller so we can do this at restaurants with him and get away with, but I wouldn't recommend playing this game in most establishments. The spit balls are mother to clean up.


Tom, a co-worker (and my current Korean tutor), standing next to some of the aforementioned "spit balls" that result from an attack.

The video below is a warning to all those who think they can handle "Attack". Watch with discretion, you might be disturbed. (PS This is Dong Oo, who also works with me. He is so fun!)



And now I lost my list, so I will have to think of more to add later, haha.

But I am teaching myself Korean until the new term for Korean classes start at the universities in Seoul (I am planning on taking classes at Ewha Woman's University. Hillary Clinton was just there to deliver a speech - http://secretaryclinton.blogspot.com/2009/02/ewha-womans-university-in-seoul-south.html). I found a really good site in case anyone is interested in browsing through the material I am learning at the moment.
This is what I am practicing: http://hompi.sogang.ac.kr/korean/kkl101/lesson01/index.html (and I actually understood most of it!)
This is where you can click on your own level and start to learn Korean (and then you can practice with me on Skype!): http://korean.sogang.ac.kr/

Love and miss you all!

Saturday, February 7, 2009

Now my blog is totally 2009!

Hey all! Sorry for the delay! At first it was because I was super busy working the extra Winter classes (Winter break isn't a break for the children, it's a reason to sign up for extra classes so that they are still in academies all day, every day - poor kids), but then it was just because I was lazy. So I decided that for my first blog of the new year I would give a list of all the things that are different in Korea compared to the USA. I wrote out a long list, but I left it at work, so I might add things later, but for now here are some things that come to mind...

1. Dr. Fish cafes!
In a Dr. Fish cafe, you buy a drink or some food and pay an extra 2,000 won to let fish eat the dead skin off your feet for 15 minutes. Maja, Jo and I go to one in Myeong-dong called 나무그 늘. Maja says it's the best. It is really cute, check it out: http://www.restree.net/

2. Couples wear matching EVERYTHING.
They have matching shirts, socks, underwear, EVERYTHING. The above duo's shirt has a guy and a girl talking into can "phones". I stole this picture from another blog, though. I always try to get a picture, but my camera is too old and crappy so the couple has already walked away by the time my camera take the picture (see my attempts below). For a better collection of pictures featuring matching couples, check out this blog: http://www.rainydazeee.com/2009/01/23/korean-couples-and-their-matching-outfits/


In the picture on the left, all you can see is part of the matching orange and white striped hats, haha. And in the picture on the right, you can't see the design on the front, which highlights the matching-ness. I suck at taking pictures! ;(


3. Driving.

It's crazy here. First of all, the traffic lights only allow one direction to drive at a time. (In the US north and south have green at the same time, then east and west have green. In Korea, only north has green, then only west has green, then only south has green and then only east has green.) But this doesn't matter because cars, mostly taxis, drive through an intersection even if the light is red. I think that this link offers interesting insight: http://www.mathnews.uwaterloo.ca/Issues/mn500/curtis.php

4. The food.


As you have seen already, the food here is different, but it's generally really delicious. In the picture to the left, we are eating deep fried bread. Yummy! My favorites are ddeokbokki (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ddeokbokki), bibimbap (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bibimbap) and galbi (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Galbi), to name a few. And of course KIM CHI!

It's all pretty spicy, but delicious!


This picture is sideways, but I had to include it! I don't know what it is, bird fetuses? I didn't try any, haha.

But anywho, you can check out more Korean food at http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_Korean_dishes.


MORE TO COME!

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

"EXPAT FLYERS" SUCKS!!!!

I have so much to say, but for now, I am posting my correspondence with the owner and let his words speak for themselves. And FYI he added the color to the email, not me.

MY EMAIL:
Dear Matthew,

I just wanted to let you know how I felt about my experience with Expat Flyers. As a business owner, I thought that it could only help you improve your business.

The biggest issue for me was that your directions were not helpful. You wrote the wrong terminal in one of your emails ("The easiest way to get to us is from Yuseong express bus terminal by taking the 104 bus to depyeong ri."). These directions never mentioned that there was more than one bus terminal (and thus a possibility for confusion). Nor did you tell me that you would recommend that I take the bus to Daejeon, since you told me later that is the easiest way to find the intercity terminal. Also, I asked for you to send me the name of the terminal in Korean. I think this would be helpful to all customers who speak limited Korean so they can show it to people, which creates less confusion than speaking. A map might also be helpful. I know that you must think that I am incompetent with directions, but I have traveled a lot in Korea (and in other foreign countries) and I have never been that lost at any point in my life. It was very frightening. I recommend that you make a word document that you can copy and paste into your future correspondences, something detailed that tells people they should take the bus, note that there are three possible Yuseong Bus Terminals (the express bus terminal, the intercity bus terminal and the intercity bus stop - which is where my second taxi driver took me when I told him "Yuseong Intercity Bus Terminal"), etc. If you save it as a document, then you do not need to worry about error and you will not need to retype it for each customer.

I understand that the only reason that I was so lost was that because of a lot of coincidences, but I planned everything properly and I did not realize all of the things that could go wrong. You made it sound very simple and I arrived at what I thought was the right location without an issue. I would have prepared myself for problems if I was aware of how confusing it would be.

Secondly I feel like my first day of lessons was not satisfactory. I was so dehydrated and tired from traveling from 6 am - 3:30 pm (7 hours of which were spent wandering all around Daejeon, Cheonan, etc.) that I was just agreeing to do whatever you wanted because I didn't want to be a bother anymore. Since we had already discussed a refund, I was under the impression that you were taking me for a joy ride to become familiar with the aircraft. That is my fault for not thinking in terms of business and you as the business owner. I am not upset that I did not receive a full refund, but I do not think that 100,000 won was a fair price to charge. As far as that lesson went, everything that you said, you taught me again, and more thoroughly, the next day. The flight was short and since I did not realize that it was a lesson, I did not try to fly or do much more than stare out the window and look at whatever gadget you pointed to since I could not properly hear you. The 'lesson' was basically 10-15 minutes of rushed information and a short, pointless flight. I would not have minded if you charged some won for the first day, like I said it was completely my fault for not declining the flight. However, since we had already talked about a refund, I just assumed that was the agreement we had decided on.

I want to let you know that I am grateful for any money back, but I saved for about a month to go on this trip and I feel like your poor directions were a large part of the reason that I missed Day One of lessons in the first place.

Additionally, I feel like the setting should be a little more professional. I felt very awkward being placed in the middle of the poor interrelations of the aviation club. Also, I would have preferred to have two or three hours of intense lessons rather than 5 hours of sitting around mixed with lessons and flying. Others might like the laid back atmosphere, but I feel like I paid for lessons so that is what I want most of my time there to consist of.

On a positive note, it is very clear that you are a talented pilot and that you are very safe while it seems many other pilots are not as stringent in their safety policies. I really enjoyed my time in the air and I think that when it comes to teaching you are very knowledgeable. I was happy with the information that I learned and I trust you as a teacher.

I hope that this information is helpful. I figured that every business owner should know how their customers feel, especially if there can be improvements made. Good luck with your interview for the Korean Herald and in Australia! Perhaps I will see you again.

Best,
Kate Davis

HIS RESPONSE:
Kate,
My classes help subsidise my income at present to let people fly cheap. I have had only one person got lost before. The directions couldn't be much more simple. Yuseong express bus terminal. Turn left and the stop is on the left. How easy is that! There are two bus stations in Yuseong but there is only one express bus terminal for Seoul. I think it is very unfare writting these comments and rude after someone goes to the trouble of driving over forty kilometers to give a special service for you! Also the car costs Gas and to turn down one customer to collect you!
My lose for you coming is far more than what you paid!
Let me just say this. To please you I took you up in the air even though I had been running around all day. I cancelled my classes in Boreong because I felt sorry for you. I lost a whole evenings earnings!.
Also the following day after already telling you what time I would pick you up you decided to have breakfast. You already knew what time I was coming before. Why were you not ready. This is manners ! Also I took my time with flights because the weather was not great and there were time when it was gusting and would have been too dangerous to fly. I like to be safe. We took you out and give you a good meal for free on the house. I gave you money back also and you write such a horrible letter.
You have no idea of the red tape involved in Korea and how difficult it has been to get this far! I am in process of upgrading many things but the process is slow and painful.
Now lets talk about prices. Uk prices for flight training are 200 dollars an hour. Korea is around 190 dollars and there is no real ground and the instructors take no time to do any special service like pick up etc. Korea is not blessed with cheap gas like the States and 70 percent of the money is on gas.
I do not know what kind of business you do, but if it takes you one month to save to do a course, please do not give people business advice because obviously you don't have a clue about running a business. I went out of my way to help you ! I have never had such a horrible mail before! I have never had anyone complain like you before! This is not constructive critism, it is rude and it is a complaint!

MY RESPONSE TO HIS RESPONSE:
Matthew,

I assure you that I never meant to be rude. I had a friend read the email solely for the purpose of telling me if there was anything that I could say differently and he told me that it did not seem bitter or rude to him. If you saw it that way, then I apologize. I really meant to give you constructive criticism. I never meant to offend you. I think that everything I said could be helpful in the future. I am very sorry that you turned down a customer to pick me up and I greatly appreciate that you did that for me. I know that I was a bother.

I think that you should have told me flat out what all of these issues were. You told me repeatedly that you were not canceling classes for me so I believed that. Anyway, I told you that I was fine not having a class. If you thought I was rude, then tell me and don't make faces at me when you think I cannot see you. I apologize again for being rude, but I am not a passive-aggressive type person and I thought that you, the business owner, should know what I was telling people. I thought that I was being courteous telling you what I was telling my friends, co-workers, etc. who were all interested and potential customers.

As far as my business, I make a lot of money, but I have tons of school debt to pay off so I budget it carefully; entertainment and frivolities obviously get least priority. And when I deal with my customers, I treat them with respect and try my best to please them.

Matthew, as I said I did not mean to write that email as a personal attack. I told you that I trusted you as a pilot and that I learned a lot, which is what really mattered. I understood that my circumstance was extreme. I tried to end the email with positive information so that you would understand that it wasn't an attack. I wanted to fly with you again for those reasons, which I stated at the end of the email. I knew that I was a bother and I wanted to return again with friends to make up for it. My friends wanted to fly, as I told you, and now that I know how to get there, there should have been no problem. We were going to plan a trip. But obviously now you have made this personal by clearly attacking me. I would rather not trek down to Daejeon to fly with you again.

Kate


More to come...

Sorak San!

Words coming soon! :)















Obama and Pig's Feet


On Wednesday, November 5th, a group of co-workers decided to try 족발 (jokbal) aka pig's feet. Coincidentally, this was also the night of the US Presidential Election. What a joyous evening for us!


Jokbal comes with lots of side dishes, including blood sausage and flesh from the pig's head (both on the right plate). The meat tasted very good. It was sort of fatty, but once you got past thinking "This is a pig's foot" it was very enjoyable. We shared two orders of jokbal between four people and that was definitely enough. If you are going to eat some, have at least three people to an order, but four is better.


The newbies enjoying the fruits of our labor/the labor of the Koreans with us who had to deal with the crazy restaurant owners. It was actually quite a scene to be seated. There were eight of us and many of the restaurants in the area were very small. Two women from nearby shops actually slapped each other over who would get us. We almost left because it was so awkward, but the nicer woman (who did not start the slap fight) came out to us and we ate in her area.


Our second, and last stop, of the evening. Fried food! Right next to the boiled pig's feet area is the fried anything-you-can-imagine area. It's very good when you are drinking. The newbies' favorite fried food: fried bread, haha! In the above picture, the fried food is in the center. Of course makgeolli is our bowls/cups.


We were all really sad that we missed out on history, but we made sure that we were as connected as possible. We were already pretty positive when we woke up Wednesday that Obama was our president, but I (as a Floridian) wanted to wait until it was 100% approved. This was that that moment.

오바마 wins! Cheers to Obama! YAY America!